2. Join a Support Group
You can also pick up smart coping strategies that others with RA have tried, from ways to get dressed quickly for work in the morning to setting a peaceful tone and rhythm for your day, she says. As time goes by and you get your RA under control, you may even discover a desire to mentor new members, which can give you a sense of purpose.
Talk to your doctor about joining either an in-person support group near your home or an online forum, such as one of the Arthritis Foundation’s Connect Groups or CreakyJoints, a free online community of support and resources for people with all forms of arthritis.
3. Get Practical Help
- High pain levels
- Low mobility
- A lower income
- Limited social support
- Personality traits such as sensitivity to anxiety and excessive worrying
If you’re struggling to navigate the health system, or worrying about mobility or how to pay for medication, ask your local health center for advice on who to speak to.
- A link to chat online on their Helpline webpage
- A helpline to call, 800-283-7800
- A helpline form to fill in with any questions
4. Keep a Gratitude Journal
During an RA flare, it’s easy to focus on the joint pain and stiffness. This is where journaling may help.
Some people find that writing in a gratitude journal can really help them focus on the good things in life, Dr. Fradlis says. It can help you relax, improve your mood, and even distract you from RA pain. Journaling in general can also be an effective and inexpensive way to release stress.
Ways of getting started include:
- Journal with a focus on positive experiences.
- Post photos online with captions of gratitude.
- Express gratitude to people around you.
- Take time to reflect on things you’re grateful for.
5. Accept and Adjust to the Challenges
- Remember you are not your RA. Keep being the person you were before, with friends, interests, and so on, only with extra challenges.
- Accept the bad days. RA comes in flares, and most people do experience remission. There’s a good chance a better day is around the corner.
- Monitor your symptoms. If you know certain factors increase the risk of a flare, try to minimize them. If symptoms are worsening, contact your medical team.
- Seek help as needed. If you feel a flare coming on, make sure you have the medications you need at hand. Keep a list of helpful phone numbers handy and don’t be afraid to ask for help.
- Express yourself. Share with others how RA is affecting you. It will help them understand your needs and when you might need help.
6. Practice Mindfulness
- Guided meditation
- Mindful movement, such as yoga or mindful walking
- Mindful eating
7. Cultivate Your Sense of Humor
- Lighten your mood
- Stimulate the heart and other body organs by increasing your intake of oxygen-rich air
- Activate and relieve your stress response, leaving you feeling more relaxed
- Soothe tension by boosting circulation and relaxing stressed muscles
In the long term, it may:
- Support your immune system by releasing stress-reducing neuropeptides
- Help relieve pain by stimulating the body to produce natural pain killers
- Make tough situations easier to face
- Help you connect with other people
- Reduce stress and anxiety and boost your self esteem
- See the humor in your own experiences and laugh with others about them
- Find a funny book or film to enjoy
- Share online jokes and funny clips with others
- Spend time with people who like to laugh or tell jokes
- Find a local “laughter yoga” class
- Play with or watch animals or children
8. Get a Good Night’s Sleep
People with RA often find it hard to get a good night’s sleep, which can worsen pain, mood, and fatigue. But, getting enough sleep can help you manage stress and RA, Fradlis says.
The authors define better sleep as:
- A regular number of sleep hours each night
- Reduced sleep disturbances
- Falling asleep soon after turning the lights out
- Establish a regular bedtime and morning routine.
- Ensure your room is cool, quiet, and dark enough for your comfort.
- Avoid large meals in the evening and caffeine after midday.
- Exercise regularly.
- Switch off electronic devices at least 30 minutes before bedtime and leave them outside the room.
- Keep a sleep diary to track your sleep patterns and causes of disturbances.
- Ask your doctor to adjust your medication if pain keeps you awake.